A Summer Sunday Evening

On Sunday I was feeling kind of grumpy. The weather was beautiful, a perfect summer day, but I was stuck inside at my desk working. It was good work, work I enjoy doing, but that weather was so nice! However I persevered until late afternoon, when it was time to head over to our friend Pat’s home for dinner. Now Pat and I have been friends for nearly 30 years, and we always love to go to her home. She has a knack for making things beautiful and comfortable, and she is a great cook. We were looking forward to a few hours sitting at the table in her lovely garden, eating and drinking and catching up on conversation. However I was feeling pressured by the work left undone, and I briefly considered canceling our date. But I knew that was a bad idea, and that I needed a break, and also that she had been most likely working hard getting things together for the meal. So I sucked it up, shut down my computer, and got ready to go.

As soon as we arrived I felt better. There was my friend and her beautiful little home and garden. We took a brief stroll around to see what was blooming. Roses! Honeysuckle! Herbs and ferns and hostas all growing with abandon. The birds were chirping. The neighbor’s dog barked. I felt my shoulders loosen up.

We sat down at the outdoor table, the one she rescued from the trash and re-tiled the top. Bright new cushions made the old chairs comfy. We ate too much guacamole and drank iced tea. After a period of time, just when we were getting ready to go into the house and get the dinner out, we heard the loud rumble of a Harley Davidson pulling into the driveway. Pat looked surprised and pleased. She had invited an old friend that we hadn’t seen for over five years, and he said he would stop by “if he could”. She didn’t expect he would actually come, and she didn’t even think to mention to us that she had invited him too. But just in time for dinner, there he was, a little hot from the ride but smiling broadly. Now there were four of us to sit in the garden and eat the good food and catch up on old times. By this point in time I had not forgotten the work, but realized it would be better work if I was more rested and less grumpy while I was doing it. So it was all good.

The long, slow summer evening wound on, and we brought the dinner dishes into the house. Our friend with the Harley had to get going, he was going to stop by and visit his daughter and her boyfriend and see their new puppy. A “wiener dog”, he called it. We laughed as he pulled away.

And then this happened:

strawberry shortcake

Yes, that’s exactly what you think it is. Homemade strawberry shortcake, with piles of organic strawberries from the CSA, fresh whipped cream, and a homemade biscuit-style shortcake. The best dessert on the planet, my absolute favorite thing to eat in the world. Heaven on a plate. All three of us worked on putting it together, and then we carried it out to the table like a trophy. Right before cutting into it, I said “take a picture!”. And Pat did, and she sent it to me. And so, I am sharing it with you.

Happy summer, everyone.

Smelling the Roses

“They are not long, the days of wine and roses. Out of a misty dream, our path emerges for a while, then closes, within a dream.” 
Ernest Dowson

 

YellowRoseOne of my goals has been to take time each day to smell the roses. What I mean by that is to notice the small things, the everyday joys that are too often overlooked in our busy lives. However, last week I had the opportunity to literally smell the roses, hundreds of them, during a visit to the Rose Garden in San Diego’s Balboa Park.

Some of the most beautiful roses had little or no fragrance, and some of the plainer varieties were resplendent with old rose perfume. I was fortunate to have a friend with me who was happy to wander slowly through the garden, stopping to sniff at nearly every new rose that presented itself. The yellow rose in the photo above had a fabulous, heady scent, spicy and sweet. I do not remember the name of this variety…shame on me! But I am pleased to have a photo to remember it by.

Two joys in one day! The company of a dear friend, and the opportunity to smell roses to my heart’s content.

Diehard Daisy

LastDaisy

I was walking around the yard feeling more than a bit overwhelmed by the amount of fall cleanup still left to do. Leaves to be raked, perennials to be cut back, etc. But there is always something beautiful to be found in the garden, even in the off season. Today I found, growing out from the side of a large clump of Shasta Daisy “Becky”, low to the ground, one lone flower. It is not scraggly, or undersized, but a full sized, perfect daisy. The contrast of the pure white flower with it’s glowing gold center against the still-green grass and fallen leaves was sublime.

It reminded me to remember to look for the small things. It reminded me to look not only up to the sky but down at the earth, which provides us with so many good things. It reminded me to be thankful.

If that’s not a joy then I don’t know what is.